https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1000015
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=59004
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=15 (from literally the first HN thread ever)
Also, it's perhaps somewhat hilarious to suggest that someone who has been chronically online for decades has to do anything to "fit in"
He writes as people who grew up on IRC and similar platforms tend to.