[awesome_dude]

My entire career - New Zealand, and Australia - asking questions is weaponised (as I stated above)

Graduate, Junior, Senior, Team Lead, - my title hasn't mattered to the response

[vkou]

You're working in toxic workplaces. Most of them aren't like this.

(I believe you when you say that most of yours are like this.)

[sylos]

I bet most workplaces are toxic in exactly this way.

[kennyloginz]

Unionize