[vintagedave]

> I’ve not had the heart to tell them they will likely need to change careers ... in my opinion the faster they realize that the better off they will be.

I understand your reluctance. Yet I think, if you believe this, you should have that hard conversation sooner rather than later.

[conductr]

I understand that but I don’t feel they’re ready to hear what I have to say on it. In a way, I’m waiting for the right time. I have to preserve our relationship and try to be optimistic for them as a supportive friend for the time being.