HN has an international audience. While the word retarded appears to be common in the US it's an offensive slur in other parts of the world; especially the UK.
Please, I'm not telling you not to use it, but I am gently asking you to consider using some other word instead.
Come on, it's absolutely mundane and non offensive to call a thing or a behaviour retarded, it's really only offensive when talking about disabled or unintelligent people. For example:
"Steven Hawking is retarded" == offensive
"The design of this chair is retarded" == inoffensive
I'm not going to try to persuade you that a hateful slur is offensive, even when it's not being used about people.
"Bob is so gay" == offensive
"That chair is so gay" == probably still offensive
I'm happy to agree to disagree. You don't think your use of the word is offensive - that's fine. But you don't get to tell me what I (or others) find offensive, and many people find any use of the word retarded offensive.
Perhaps it's a generational thing. Are you young? (Less than 35?)
Sexual orientation (and race, because someone's sure to make the analogy) has little effect on one's public life, it's just taking society a long time to realize that it's not relevant enough to make any sense as a pejorative. I don't think we're likely to regard intelligence that way, whichever words the euphemism treadmill brings.
Sexual orientation and skin colour are still used as insults even though sensible people agree that it's stupid to do so.
> I don't think we're likely to regard intelligence that way
I have no problem with people saying "This decision is dumb" or "This decision is stupid" or "This decision is idiotic". I do have a problem when people say "This decision is retarded" because that's not general stupidity, it is linked specifically to people with learning disabilities.
Some, maybe all, of those words used to be diagnoses of intellectual disabilities. I don't think laymen distinguish them much at all; I was never taught to do so. If the goal is to deter everyone from showing contempt for lack of intelligence (though I don't think that's going to happen) I don't see another word with the same connotation as progress. Am I overlooking something?
HN has an international audience. While the word retarded appears to be common in the US it's an offensive slur in other parts of the world; especially the UK.
Please, I'm not telling you not to use it, but I am gently asking you to consider using some other word instead.