[iwriteaboutcode]

I relate to this a lot, the unhappiest people I know are the ones who are constantly shocked by obvious events happening in predictable ways. Yes, that car that is itching to get into the lane will, in fact, merge into that lane, why are you losing your shit instead of taking the foot off the gas so they can safely merge in, and instead spend your time honking, yelling, and driving aggressively close to "show them". Weird-ass behavior, and those people never radiate happiness even in a completely unbothered state.