[stackghost]

>Matrix algebra is the language of symmetry and transformation, and the fact that a followed by b differs from b followed by a is no surprise; to expect the two transformations to coincide is to seek symmetry in the wrong place — like judging a dog’s beauty by whether its tail resembles its head.

The way I've always explained this to non-algebra people is to imagine driving in a city downtown. If you're at an intersection and you turn right, then left at the next intersection, you'll end up at a completely different spot than if you were to instead turn left and then right.