[lostlogin]

> I don't know if there is a 3rd option that would be more reasonable.

There may be something less extreme, but leaving the US is one way out of that mess.

[amundskm]

That unfortunately is not an option for us. We talked about it when we were younger, but both sides of our family live within a two hour drive of us and it important to us to be present in their lives and have them be present in ours.

If I had no personal ties, I would very much like to live abroad.