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by SorelMihai 5009 days ago
How do you define "smart"? Is your girlfriend simply just a better person than you are or she's just more intelligent?

Intelligence is usually something you inherit or you get as a gift, when you're born. Being smart or stupid works the same with being short or tall. Not exactly something that you can change.

It's stupid to judge ourselves or other people by these premises. It's smart to judge people by the way work with these premises. You can be very intelligent and endup doing a lot of bad things or you can be stupid as hell but do good and add real value to the world.

So don't bother yourself anymore. Love her, don't lie to hear, fuck her well and make her laugh. You'll be just fine.