I plan to work on a Skyrim follower mod to showcase this in action. Meanwhile, you can try a short conversation example in main.rs if you want to test it without using C++ :)
It is difficult to understand the examples you described about "not reacting naturally" without a conocrete example of "thing A not working" and then "your thing working" in the same setup. A concrete real example possibly with comments from you like "after this line A B C happens, so ...".