[xrd]

If I block them when the kids are with me, and then my ex-wife unblocks them when the kids are with her, the hordes are past the gate.

I'll do my best raising my kids well, as you said.

[djrj477dhsnv]

Well that's an inherent problem of having multiple people with custody of a single child.

Ideally a compromise can be reached, but in extreme cases I suppose it could end up with litigation. But still, this is a private dispute, not something that should require outsourcing parenting to the government.