[thwarted]

> then the source of the problem is in unclean separation of concerns and tight coupling

Sometimes the problem is in the edges—the way the separate concerns interact—not in the nodes. This may arise, for example, where the need for an operation/interaction between components doesn't need to be idempotent because the need for it to be never came up.

[prerok]

What, you mean like creating a transaction where if one component does something then the second component fails, the first one should revert?

Again, wrong design. Like I said, it's very difficult to do well. Consider alternate architecture: one component adds the bulk data to request, the second component modifies it and adds other data, then the data is sent to transaction manager that commits or fails the operation, notifying both components of the result.

Now, if the first component is one k8s container already writing to the database and second is then trying to modify the database, rearchitecting that could be a major pain. So, I understand that it's difficult to do after the fact. Yet, if it's not done that way, the problem will just become bigger and bigger. In the long run, it would make more sense to rearchitect as soon as you see such a situation.