[sdairs]

Is the proposition in the OP not pretty much what you're suggesting in your blog? They're currently not using the query builder syntax, instead its pretty much "improving on SQL as strings" with a bunch of the other ORM-like benefits (type safety, autocomplete, etc.)

Perhaps saying "ORM" is a bit of a misnomer, but they're discussing the DX ergonomics of an ORM and acknowledging the exact challenges you describe

[primering]

Yeah it's funny they even mention ORM while at the same offering something that has nothing to do with ORMs at all. Yes, many ORM libraries offer additional tools like migration and querybuiler, but that's not the point of an ORM. ORM maps relation data to your OOP data structures. They completely misused the term entirely, which is kinda surprising.