| (For context, I've conducted hundreds of system design interviews and trained a dozen other people on how to do them at my company. Other interviewers may do things differently or care about other things, but I think what I'm saying here isn't too far off normal.) I think three things about what you're saying: 1. The answers you're giving don't provide a lot of signal (the queue one being the exception). The question that's implicitly being asked is not just what you would choose, but why you would choose it. What factors would drive you to a particular decision? What are you thinking about when you provide an answer? You're not really verbalizing your considerations here. A good interviewer will pry at you to get the signal they need to make a decision. So if you say that back-pressure isn't worth worrying about here, they'll ask you when it would be, and what you'd do in that situation. But not all interviewers are good interviewers, and sometimes they'll just say "I wasn't able to get much information out of the candidate" and the absence of a yes is a no. As an interviewee, you want to make the interviewer's job easy, not hard. 2. Even if the interviewer is good and does pry the information out of you, they're probably going to write down something like "the candidate was able to explain sensibly why they'd choose a particular technology, but it took a lot of prodding and prying to get the information out of them -- communications are a negative." As an interviewee, you want to communicate all the information your interviewer is looking for proactively, not grudgingly and reluctantly. (This is also true when you're not interviewing.) 3. I pretty much just disagree on that SQL/NoSQL answer. Team expertise is one factor, but those technologies have significant differences; depending on what you need to do, one of them might be way better than the other for a particular scenario. Your answer there is just going to get dinged for indicating that you don't have experience in enough scenarios to recognize this. |
One of the things I tell people preparing for system design interviews is the more senior you are, the more you need to drive the interview yourself, knowing when to go deep, what to go deep on, and how to give the most signal to the interviewer.