[Bender]

because that's not how it's used in schools currently.

That's school districts being lazy. That is clearly the first thing that need to be prioritized and resolved nation wide in all first world countries. The instigators must be removed from the picture without debate.

[StevenWaterman]

We already have a phrase for "if you start a fight you get punished"

The phrase is "normal, non-zero-tolerance policy"

[Bender]

As long as "if you start a fight you get punished" includes verbiage that means kicking out the instigator without debate regardless of crocodile tears and threats of lawsuit then I'm fine with that. The end result must be zero tolerance of instigating violence.