[glitchcrab]

Do you not think that maybe those people care about you and would like to know how you are? I appreciate that you have your boundaries, but it doesn't sound like you're considering their point of view. Or maybe you are but it isn't conveyed in the post well.

[block_dagger]

You're correct, I'm not considering their point of view. Bukowski said it best - your life is your life. Don't let it be beaten into dank submission.

[blueflow]

I'm a different person, but maybe: Their family is where they got zapped. And that fence is probably still working.

Same for me...