I’ve found the OpenBSD community to have a bad/snobbish attitude which could just be a coincidence, no idea. I’ve always liked NetBSD which I never had that problem with.
Yeah read the docs like their years of invalidated articles, howtos, published books, and more when they decided to make bc breaks in pf.conf for anyone who trusted them to make a firewall that could be upgraded without a site visit.
I remember a discussion with an OpenBSD developer whose answer to the lack of a journaling file system was to simply have a UPS, like any normal computer user should have (there are hobby operating systems with journaling FS, but due to the antique development model, OpenBSD developers can't do significant work like a new file system).