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by abbycurtis33 305 days ago
Your kids don't need to urgently make a call after 8:30.
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Totally agree.

And, I'm in the process of divorcing. I want them to have the psychological safety that they can call their mom when they need to.

Kids are all about trying to establish some kind of control in their lives. My son especially says "I'm texting mom!!!" at 10 pm. I want to provide him the access to reach his mom if he really needs to, but avoid him staring at a screen, which is what he is really trying to do in between waiting for the text from his mom.

I know there are parental controls that would help with this kind of thing. That requires both parents are aligned on the way those controls are used. It isn't that simple in my case.

Fair enough. Good luck, man.