[Quarrelsome]

ah, thank you for the extra context. I appreciate knowing that, its certainly an easier mistake to make without the quotes.

> I'm surprised that someone ran with an uncharitable interpretation like they did.

I am less so, maybe I'm getting old and falling into elderly tropes, but I feel like there's a growing uptick in society with people seeking a platform to moralise, while skimming the content and not understanding it. The short-cuts that were originally just amber/red flags (e.g. like the casualness of throwing out a harsh label like "slut") are starting to become the offense, as opposed to the actual behaviour (the underlying cruelty) that they originally hinted at.