[brettgriffin]

You should be focusing on working your ass off at your job and increasing your earning potential there.

You don't say what you do or where you are, but you're earning $20 an hour. In virtually any industry you should be able to work your way into something much closer to $75k-100k within 24 months if you exhibit any significant agree of professionalism, attitude, and work ethic.

I would stop messing around with these side hustle ideas and just work like a motherfucker.

[wryoak]

> In virtually any industry you should be able to work your way into something much closer to $75k-100k within 24 months if you exhibit any significant agree of professionalism, attitude, and work ethic

Okay boomer. In which fields or industries have you accomplished this? I agree those attributes will generally be rewarded but not at that rate, not in most fields.

[brettgriffin]

I was making $35/hr (~$70k) a year as a department manager in a grocery store while I still in college. And that was 20 years ago.

I just helped a friend's wife (late 20s) apply and interview for a general administration position in a tier 3 city. She didn't study anything important and sort of just floundered for a few years after college doing various temp jobs. She ended up getting the job makes about $90k now. They thought I did some sort of a magic trick or something.

That seems great until you realize that fast food and grocery stores are paying new hires $22-27/hr (so 45-54k). Again, if you have any degree of professionalism and work ethic you can move into some low ranking managerial position that is closer to $30-45/hr.

In short, $75k-100 is not a lot of money anymore and is pretty easy to get. It requires ignoring this learned helplessness and working hard.

[t-3]

Talking numbers doesn't sense without specifying the geography. Here in a Midwestern suburb, grocery stores are generally paying 13-16. Managers get low 20s. 100k is a great job here, most people can't get that even with a degree.

[brettgriffin]

It's all relative. Those areas have significantly lower costs of living.

[wryoak]

Having lived on the west coast, east coast, and all over the in between, you’re not right. But you’re not wrong either. The truth is far more complex. Consider the fact that most food in the Midwest is shipped from the coasts - everything the Midwest grows goes into either cars or cows. A west coast housing budget goes further in the Midwest, but a west coast grocery budget will come up short.

[idontwantthis]

Has OP even tried dressing for the job they want to have and faking it till they make it? What about giving their boss a firm handshake and asking for a raise?

[paulcole]

I hire client-facing digital marketing account managers and pay in that range.

Anybody with a good work ethic and the ability to interact with other people reliably is hirable. It's rarer than you think!

Sales is another field where being in the top 20% is shockingly easy and just depends on willingness to work and learn.

[scarface_74]

The median wage in the US is $38K. That’s what an Amazon driver can make.

Are you really telling me that in 2025 someone with skills and grit can’t make more than that? Hell I was making a little over $50K as regular old enterprise dev in Atlanta working for a company that mailed out utility bills in 2000.

[freeourdays]

Thank you for your encouragement, I can try