[whatamidoingyo]

> Why not Square?

I looked for alternatives, such as PayPal, and Square. They consider dating websites "high-risk", so they would most likely ban the account as well. It just seems like too much of a headache to rewrite the codebase to just have the account banned again.

> Why not crypto?

I thought about this as well. I don't dislike the idea of crypto, but what would users think? It would probably be a huge red flag and look like a scam site.

So, the dating sites that are already in existence are it - they own the market. I'm pretty sure I've read that the execs of Stripe are also invested in Tinder/Bumble*, etc. No wonder it's extremely difficult to compete.

* - not sure if this is actually true.

[justinrubek]

Why is the payment processor so strongly coupled to the point that you would need to rewrite it? I understand there's effort to adapt it but I don't think it's good to write the code like that.

[whatamidoingyo]

Well, of course some things are going to need to be rewritten? It won't be complicated at all, but the primary concern is registering new accounts, looking through documentation for API keys, testing, etc. This seems like wasted effort just to get banned again. Or worse -- get banned and account funds put on a hold.