Fundamentally people don't want to be around each other, certainly not strangers, and the perceived (likely even real) consequences of it are an expected net loss.
That's a little extreme. There are country mice and city mice. City mice want to live inside cities and eliminate cars. That's great for them. Country mice, like me and I suspect you, want city mice to stay in the city and not ruin the nicer, quieter living space outside.
Now, if we could just get cities to keep their light pollution within the city, it would be a nicer world.
Now, if we could just get cities to keep their light pollution within the city, it would be a nicer world.