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Spoiled is expecting and being upset you can't get something that others can't get. Having the ability to spend time with your kid is a luxury to most average folks.

The asking the kid to schedule creates this negative pressure. The kid would take the situation differently if framed differently.

Most kids if asked would never want their parents to work. Don't set your kids up that way. Teach them why work is important to them being able to eat.

The parents of earlier generations sent their kids away if rich or rarely saw them when working the fields 16 hour days.