[northhnbesthn]

This seems like a fairly ORM 100-level thing. Read the documentation that comes with your ORM I guarantee it has a best practices section and a performance considerations section. N+1 is trivial and widely covered by every ORM as it’s a common thing. nb I use entity framework so ymmv, but EF Core especially newer versions with one-way updates and deletes have been good to me and migrations aren’t half bad either. The code is I think much easier on the eyes than python/django but that’s a personal pref.