[itake]

This tracts, but I think women are evaluating men in “TikTok” metrics, instead of qualities that make a man a great partner.

For example, being over 6ft doesn’t make you a good dad. Or being physically attractive, doest’t make you a supportive partner.

If anything, these characteristics make a man worse, as men in these categories tend to have the pick of the litter, resulting in many women frustrating and disappointed in men if they weren’t selected.

[sapphicsnail]

I've spent a ton of time around women and men and I can tell you men are way more likely to make a decision based on physical appearance.

[fouc]

That's not what the data says when looking at online dating for example.