[m00x]

Calvin works incredibly hard and has very little ego. I was surprised he joined OpenAI since he's loaded from the Segment acquisition, but if anyone it makes sense he would do this. He's always looking to find the hardest problem and work on it.

That's what he did at Segment even in the later stages.

[ml-anon]

Someone putting their work project over their newborn in this circumstance (returning early from pay leave no less) is 100% ego driven.

[mirekrusin]

Newborns need constantly mom, not dad. Moms need husbands or their moms to help. The way it works is you agree what to do as a family (to do it or not to do it) and everybody is happy with their lives. You can be a great dad and husband and still do all of it when it makes sense and your wife supports it etc. Not having kids in the first place could be considered ego driven, not this.

[ml-anon]

Incredible that you've managed to post this from the 1950's

[m00x]

No, he's right. I just went through newborn phase right now and the only person that needed is mom. Kid wanted nothing to do with me. He just wanted food and sleep.

[ml-anon]

Your poor partner.