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by ChrisMarshallNY
345 days ago
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I have found that there are people who just want to watch the world burn. There are many reasons, but, at its most basic, hurt people hurt people. That's something I like to keep in mind, when I'm reacting to someone being ... less than friendly ... By reacting badly, I then make it all right for them to justify doing it again, to someone else. I've found that I can defend myself, without becoming a foaming-at-the-mouth maniac. We can enforce our boundaries with water pistols, most of the time. We don't need nukes. Everything is connected. This chap may be naive, but he's actually trying to set good connections in motion. I applaud that. |
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It takes real effort to do that in a positive way with a society built around surfacing negativity.