[Tainnor]

> In my experience, people new to Haskell focus way too much on getting the "a-ha" moment for monads in general, [...]

I feel this is true in general for mathematics (and therefore by languages whose design is heavily inspired by maths). A lot of people not familiar with university-level maths think that they need to understand what some mathematical concept "really means", but modern mathematics is a structural science. It looks at things that have entirely different semantics (symmetries, conservation laws, integers, matrices, Rubik's cubes, ...) and noticing that they all have the same structure (they're all groups) and therefore we can say something about all of them simultaneously.

That doesn't mean that intuition is useless. Once you have thoroughly understood what makes a group a group or a vector space a vector space, it's totally normal to e.g. consider a space of functions and think of them in your head as if they were arrows in a Euclidean space (the analogy breaks down at some point, but it can carry you a certain way). That's also why it's fine to think of a monad as a container or as a burrito or whatever once you've actually understood the concept. But you can't really short-circuit this process in my opinion.