I’m confused as to what that would look like though. If you implement a linked list in C/C++, it ends up looking like cons. What is Xah imagining it would be otherwise?
You'll have an equivalent of a cons cell in any linked list implementation, but you won't necessarily interact with it as a user. Look at the standard library implementation of a linked list in C# for example (https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/dotnet/api/system.collecti...). You see methods for looping over a list, for accessing elements, for insertions and removals, but not much for directly accessing a list's nodes and manually constructing a list out of those nodes. That part is abstracted away.