People feel things reading books, watching movies, even animated ones that have no people in them, looking at abstract art... Why should this be any different?
I get the point, I just disagree with it.. If you think an AI is "pretending" or has "intentions" then you are anthropomorphizing it more strongly than people who are emotionally moved by chatting with an AI while knowing that it's a chatbot.
I never said AI itself is pretending. Quite the contrary.
But AI companies are certainly trying to create the illusion that chatbots are behaving like humans. If someone is being fooled by this then these people are the ones anthropomorphizing it.
Usually the feel part is the subconscius one that isn't swayed by knowing
Like a phobia, its whole thing is being irrational, knowing it doesn't make sense doesn't diminish the feeling