[soulofmischief]

> judgmental and condescending

pushing back against judgement and condescension is not judgemental and condescending.

> may not really exist

I'm open to reading over any resources you would like to provide, maybe it's "real", maybe it isn't, but I have personally both experienced and witnessed the effect in myself, other individuals and groups. It's a good heuristic for certain scenarios, even if it isn't necesarily generalizable.

[Timwi]

I would invite you to re-read some of the comments you perceived as judgement and condescension and keep an open mind. You might find that you took them as judgement and condescension unfairly.

Meanwhile, you have absolutely been judgemental and condescending yourself. If you really keep the open mind that you profess, you'll take a moment to reflect on this and not dismiss it out of hand. It does not do you any favors to blissfully assume everyone is wrong about you and obliviously continue to be judgmental and condescending.

[soulofmischief]

> It does not do you any favors to blissfully assume everyone is wrong about you and obliviously continue to be judgmental and condescending.

I think if you read my own comments again you will realize I make no such assumptions at all, and have been open to criticism from those who made a genuine attempt to give feedback.