[bluefirebrand]

> maybe i like taking care of my friends kids, volunteering, or doing other things that contribute to the "future of society

That's great, that doesn't absolve you of your responsibility to also mentor juniors at work though

Those are different tasks in different worlds and they all need doing

[ookblah]

nice deflection. i might not share your enthusiasm for mentoring junior devs, but i do it anyway because like you, i agree it's important. the point, though, is at the end of the day even if i didn't do it you have no fucking right to come with that moral high ground.

if you've optimized every facet of your life to do all the "responsible things" society needs then feel free to throw the first stone. anything else is just posturing.

and just a small thing, it's ironic that you're so fixated on socialization for society’s sake while being so tunnel-visioned in defending your own definition of what that even means. i've given you plenty examples but it just doesn't fit the one you personally adhere to.