[rbanffy]

I must disagree. The discussions here on HN must be civil, of course, but posts like this and the community problems they are about still exist. We're not a big happy family and we have our differences and our own bad days. I've been less than the gentleman my family taught me to be more often than I would be proud of.

But, still, we can apologize, try to understand each other and learn from our experiences.