I prefer vscode simply because VS is excruciatingly slow. e.g. the file open pane in vscode pretty much instantly lists the file I'm looking for, while the counterpart in VS (ctrl+,) takes several seconds and intermixes search results for files and file contents, when I'm only interested in files.
Ctrl+, followed by f filename, you will get the file.
The only reasons I use VSCode are the plugins I cannot get on VS, like Powershell, Rust, Azure tooling, and for stuff like Next.js, better use an editor that is anyway a browser in disguise.
Performance has never been a part of my decision flowchart.