[unsnap_biceps]

While I understand the term fits as "derisive", I'm not understanding why you think it's a hypocritical term. It seems pretty clear that "involuntary" is correct, and a definition for celibate is "having or involving no sexual relations", so that seems to fit as well.

[hd4]

Precisely because it's routinely used to attack them as having agency in the matter of being an "incel".

[archagon]

They do have agency. But they choose rage instead.

They need to get off the manosohere and actually engage with women like fellow human beings, not prize catches in a mating game.

[xigoi]

It doesn’t matter how you interact with women; if they already have a partner, they are obviously not going to date you.