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If I had to give a loose definition of topology, I would say that it is actually about studying spaces which have some notion of what is close and far, even if no metric exists. The core idea of neighborhoods in point set topology captures the idea of points being nearby another point, and allows defining things like continuity and sequence convergence which require a notion of closeness. From Wikipedia [0] for example

The terms 'nearby', 'arbitrarily small', and 'far apart' can all be made precise by using the concept of open sets. If we change the definition of 'open set', we change what continuous functions, compact sets, and connected sets are. Each choice of definition for 'open set' is called a topology. A set with a topology is called a topological space.

Metric spaces are an important class of topological spaces where a real, non-negative distance, also called a metric, can be defined on pairs of points in the set. Having a metric simplifies many proofs, and many of the most common topological spaces are metric spaces.

That's not to say that topology is necessarily the best lens for understanding neural networks, and the article's author has shown up in the comments to state he's moved on in his thinking. I'm just trying to clear up a misconception.

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_topology