Conservative means to me, emphasizing that rapid change in society has historically caused net harm. I see both major parties sitting on equal quantities of conservatism right now.
With all due respect, that's not the a good definition of conservatism before, or especially after, Trump. By your definition, the current conservatives exhibit little or none of your conservatism and the liberals have a lot.
You’ve described the realignment of conservatism that I see in American society.
Are Newt and Rush and Donald “owning the libs” with serial infidelity and multiple divorces? No, “owning the libs” only works directed at principled centrists or conservatives. Liberals are unperturbed by the “owning the libs” stuff because it’s only the kind of thing a bootlicking tool would say, like “heil Hitler”.
There’s another phenomenon (I’m in the Midwest where we say grace at a meal). Young people quoting Acts, while older people tend toward the Old Testament. I’m very careful when I say this: quoting the Old Testament is Judeo-Christian but it is distinctly different than following Christ as savior. This is crystal clear to young people in a paleoconservative way.
The embrace of Russia starting with Paul Manafort implanting words in the Republican Party platform in 2015. Someone like me sees the KGB fellas ascend at the end of Yeltsin and expects their old habits. Whether the guys around Putin can be trusted should be easy for a conservative to answer.