[chneu]

Nah that seems about right.

If you remove family and online interactions, I'd wager most white men under the age of 40 who aren't married have less than 3 friends.

I'd also wager that most single women under the age of 40 have less than 5 friends.

[peterldowns]

Huh, interesting, do you have any links I could read for more info? This is really surprising to me. And out of curiosity, what does being white have to do with it?

[chneu]

I believe the latest episode of the "Modern Love" podcast is kind of about this.

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/05/14/podcasts/why-boys-and-men...

I don't have any more links off hand, but I don't think this is a "new" thing as I've seen it discussed quite a lot over the years. Things such as "Why do white men kill themselves so much more than other groups?"

I don't want to get into the whole "white men's problems are more important than other groups problems" because it's very sensitive and that isn't the point I was making.

There are a ton of reasons why this seems to afflict white men a bit more and I don't know which of them are more valid than others. Whether the idea that it affects white men more is probably contentious in itself. That's not the point.

I'm not claiming I'm right or that it's a serious issue. It's just an interesting topic that probably has a billion factors contributing. It's interesting to think about and can be eye opening to what other people are going through.