[VoidWhisperer]

> At some point, your doctor WILL fail you, so you have to take responsibility, usually when you're weak and at a low point in your life.

The two times I've been hospitalized in my adult life, I've been incredibly thankful for my parents stepping in to act as my patient advocates, including pushing back on doctors when necessary. (The first hospitalization was guilliane-barre and the other a rare hemotological condition, so i wasn't in a great place in either scenario to advocate for myself).

A pediatrician in my family has said that patients get significantly better outcomes when they have a patient advocate, because even if they are directly related to you (i.e. parents or sibling), they are going to be far better at being objective on the situation than you, the person being affected by it, is