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by fab1an
5050 days ago
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Based on Isaacson's official biography, the 'reality distortion field' ascribed to Jobs by Apple employees was more of a euphemism for his capacity of successfully 'bend the truth' / outright lie for the sake of 'placeboing' the world towards his vision. "To some people, calling it a reality distortion field was just a clever way to say that Jobs tended to lie. But it was in fact a more complex form of dissembling. He would assert something - be it a fact about world history or a recounting of who suggested an idea at a meeting - without even considering the truth. It came from willfully defying reality, not only to others but to himself." (p. 118) While it's tempting to 'learn' described techniques, particularly for us entrepreneurial types, one shouldn't forget that their 'mastery' necessarily presupposes a flexible attitude towards ethics and to some extent, basic human decency. Jobs, of course, wasn't exactly a master of either. |
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The lesson that certainty and how you frame your view of the world to other people has a massive impact both on your own world and those around you is valuable, and does not require a flexible attitude towards ethics even though that same lesson can of course be horribly exploited by those that does have a flexible attitude toward ethics.
Most of us distort our own reality. The problem is that a lot of us interpret it more negatively than it really is. E.g. shy or introverted people have a tendency to remember peoples reactions as more negative than they actually are, and to underestimate how well we come across to people we meet in person, and so give up on a lot of opportunities.
Consciously "tuning" your own distortion field more towards certainty and focusing on the positive can be immensely beneficial without requiring you to turn into a liar and manipulator.