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Alain de Botton also published this in video form, seven years ago [0]. If you want the cliff's notes, his School of Life channel has a shorter version [1].

[0] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-EvvPZFdjyk 22 minutes

[1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuKV2DI9-Jg 4 minutess