[hombre_fatal]

Seems reasonable that you would struggle with the opportunity cost of your time when you're writing software for fun since you could also be working towards a greater goal of launching something that might make money.

Software is relatively unique because of the multiplying effects of software (without banking on a moonshot) unlike, say, carpentry or strumming a guitar. So the opportunity cost can be even higher.

You should always be cognizant of opportunity costs because they're always in play. And I can see that getting away from people, especially if you haven't already achieved your financial life goals.

I feel similar when I try to play a game in my 30s. It feels like a huge waste of time compared to something that would advance me towards my aspirations. But I think that's just part of being an adult. Just be aware of the trade you're making.

[mibsl]

Being always cognizant of opportunity costs also has an opportunity cost in terms of mental health and life satisfaction.

[hombre_fatal]

Depends on what you do with that information, doesn't it?

I think you want to embody both awareness and acceptance. And probably make a deliberate choice in the matter instead of just drifting.

[StefanBatory]

I ended up on SSRI because of that, personally.

[alkonaut]

I still don't get it. What I want to do is make software as a hobby that can never be sold. If I start writing some boring SaaS software instead then I'm losing my opportunity to do what I like?

I think it must basically be a funamental question of goals/aspirations to begin with. I never had an aspiration to be e.g. wealthy, retire early, or make very senior positions within my company. Is that the difference?