[tayo42]

Being the one that initiates triggers my own anxieties lol. I start wondering how come no one else ever is?

[caseyy]

I added a little bit about that in my comment above. Yeah, I feel the same way, it’s not a pleasant feeling.

I think many people don’t make the effort anymore, but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you if you do — nothing to be anxious about, I’d say. Besides, leading and organizing things has its advantages.