[johnfn]

> I recently spoke with a friend who was still dwelling on something that happened thirty years ago. “Why do you care?” I asked him. “That was four versions of you ago. That person doesn’t exist anymore. Move on.”

Do you think this actually helped your friend? In any way?

[travisd]

Of course! It helped your friend realize what kind of person you are and hopefully spurred them to find better friends who possess actual human empathy.