[smitty1e]

One is always selecting from a subset of the available information is any conversation.

Maybe the point could be elaborated "never mislead".

As a parent, while I don't want my children to grow up in a shoebox, I also don't want them awash in the hedonistic filth of our day, either.

So I tell them "form follows function" and express the importance of actual marriage, not the modern variations.