[hilbert42]

"…perhaps I'm still young."

Possibly so, wisdom often take years to gel and often only after life events force its notions to the fore.

[tasuki]

I had way more than usual share of "life events". I threw my career out the window to care for my toddler and dying partner. Then my partner died and I'm left alone raising the kid. What else is going to happen to make me wiser?