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by hobs 425 days ago
Just get someone a Power Of Attorney, while the spouse gets a few more rights the POA is literally acting as You.
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I did 25yr administering my spouse's medical care. Being the spouse routinely greased skids that our PoA would not have.

I saw medical proxy mentioned above. I ran into those routinely but they were always supplied by the service provider. When they showed up it was good news; it meant I would have full discretion with that provider.