Totally get the struggle — I spent way too many hours figuring which design system should I use for my next project. Ended up creating a site to compare the options: [https://rails.style]. Might help others in the same spot.
Worth noting that the poor performance of erb has been debunked[1] and it'd be helpful to add some caveat or clarification in the rendering solutions table.
[1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43550721