[Dusseldorf]

Gotta disagree here. When you choose to have kids you're giving yourself to something greater. Ignoring them to dedicate yourself to a career is not someone's "yum", it's just being derelict in your duties to your children. Don't have kids if your "yum" is dedicating your life to your career, and no one will have any problems with your choice.

[ethbr1]

Taking umberage on behalf of someone's children is unfair -- who are you to disempower them to make their own value judgements?