[hnisoss]

As much as I loved matrix I still can't bend the spoon or be my own boss.

[mmooss]

I don't quite understand your point. It's not about bending spoons, but about the arrogance of certainty.

And why not be your own boss? It might take some work to get there, but I think the most important requirement for being your own boss is the drive and adaptability to overcome all the challenges.