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by andsoitis 461 days ago
> I'm in Southern Utah (St George), willing to relocate to SLC area or Las Vegas, I just need to stay local for my kids...4 hour radius from southern Utah.

I suggest you optimize for your own (individual) positive economic trajectory first.

RuPaul has a saying “if you can’t love yourself, how can you love somebody else. Can I get an amen up in here?” An analog to your situation might be: if you cannot be there for yourself, how can you be there for your kids?

Consequently, I suggest you not limit yourself to such a narrow radius of employment opportunity. If you cannot get a well-paying job somewhere else, you shoylr have resources to visit your kids. Watch out for ruinous empathy.